Denying sex to your spouse !

More than a few women have a problem in this area. Not to be overly dramatic, but these women are prostituting themselves within marriage. For one reason or another, such women like to have their husbands sex starved so they can blackmail them, control them, humiliate them, dole out the favors on their terms, get what they want, etc. They are prostitutes, in other words, who happened to be married. Husbands can do the same thing, and have, as a form of control; but it is more often women who fall into this pathology of sin. Of course, there is always the excuses and contingencies, as with any sin. But God looks to the heart of the matter, to what is really going on. Whenever sex is bartered, it is prostitution; and no money need change hands. Married people belong to each other. A wife in disobedience has become a married prostitute with a single customer. God is not mocked. Such is a great offense and thus the warnings of the scriptures above.

There is not much that scripture says to married couples, and this is something very clear. It is a sin to deny the partner in marriage. This must be confronted and repented of.

Eph 5:3-17 (NIV) But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people... Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient... Find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for it is light that makes everything visible... Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is.

A spouse who refuses to have sex with their partner is guilty of cruelty, the Delhi High Court has ruled in a case over a contested divorce.

Read more:http://www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_sex_denial.html

She looks Kadazan ?

30 plus years ago, I meet a young Malay girl in Singapore airport. She was a complete stranger but she came to me just at the exit door smiling.
I was from KL alone in one of the official trips. I was already married but quite a romeo.
To cut the story short, I ended taking the girl to my hotel and had sex with her. She left the next morning but turned up the following night.
I had never took her contact or even care to find out where she lived or what she was doing in Singapore. I don't even know her name yet, or probably forgotten, could be Aishah, for a strange reason, she passionately offer herself to me. She was not a prostitute and neither did she ask any money from me. It was purely a secret affair and sometimes, I wonder if she had became pregnant through that relation and what happened to her baby, if she had one. Perhaps, one day I will come to know, and how terribly awkward would I feel coming face to face with some one I unknowingly fathered and have not played the role of a good father and husband - forgive me Lord for that happened before I came to know and accepted you as my personal savior and Lord of my life. But I was a good Catholic, going to Holy Communion and Novena praying to and worshipping Mary more than to you and God the Father.
I pray Lord that if indeed this person is my daughter, please allow her the opportunity to know you and accept you as Lord and Savior that we can be united in You and Father God in your mighty and holy name. Amen